author / speaker / urban philosopher

The Difference Between Blame and Responsibility

EP: 030 | 38 MIN | AIRED: 04.13.2021

We are neck deep in a culture of blame where our first instinct is to find out who caused the mess rather than who will fix it. Why do we struggle so much with the idea of responsibility? Why has it become so conditional? Still think you’re one of the responsible ones? Think again.

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Why Are You So Triggered?

EP: 029 | 45 MIN | AIRED: 04.06.2021

All too often we notice how other people seem triggered or hooked… but the truth is, it’s you too! On this episode, we’re getting to the heart of your own machinery to answer that one big question: Why are you so triggered?

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Becoming a Student of Yourself

EP: 028 | 41 MIN | AIRED: 03.30.2021

It’s pretty safe to say we think we know ourselves best; yet when you try to explain why you do this thing or that thing, the explanation never seems to be enough to change what you’re doing. In short, do we really know ourselves enough to change? On this episode, we deal with what it actually takes to become the student and eventually become masterful in navigating the most dangerous of waters – Yourself.

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You’re Just Not that Aware

EP: 027 | 43 MIN | AIRED: 03.23.2021

We all enjoy the personal victories, the occasional triumphs over ourselves and our bad habits, but what does it actually take to develop yourself as a human being? What is it to be aware and empowered and capable of producing out-of-the-box results in your life? Well, the keys to a lifetime of developing yourself are yours for the taking – so, turn up the volume! On this episode, Gary’s taking a trip into the subconscious to show how you can recalibrate your thoughts, find the logical path forward, and prepare for the game of your life. All that and one hell of a question from the Nation that you don’t want to miss.

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Overwhelm and Endless Problems

EP: 026 | 42 MIN | AIRED: 03.16.2021

What to do when you’re overwhelmed… I mean how DO you work through the confusion and seemingly endless stream of problems and issues? On this episode, Gary picks through the way we think to put you in control of how to get your life on track. Oh, and let me tell you something: YOU DO NOT WANT TO MISS THIS WEEK’S QUESTION FROM THE NATION!!!

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What are you causing?

EP: 025 | 33 MIN | AIRED: 03.09.2021

Usually when we hear the word “cause” we think of who or what is to blame or at fault – but on this episode, Gary takes a big Scottish chainsaw to that notion and lays out why we live lives of reaction and how it can often leave us suppressed or out of ideas. So, do you want to live a great life? One where you are empowered to make great things happen? Then listen in!!!

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The Problem with Change

EP: 024 | 34 MIN | AIRED: 03.02.2021

There’s a nature to changing your life, that is to say there are certain things that come with any significant life change. The problem is we often resist or try to avoid the baggage that comes with change, and we end up putting off the changes we so desperately want to make.

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What’s it Worth?

EP: 023 | 32 MIN | AIRED: 02.23.2021

Get ready! Gary’s taking a sledgehammer to the self-help industry waffle around the subject of worth. On this episode, let go of your need to find who you are in your bank balance or your job or your business and finally understand what you need to be focusing on when it comes to proving who the hell you are!

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Candor or Complaint?

EP: 022 | 34 MIN | AIRED: 02.16.2021

Can you tell the difference between speaking your mind and being authentic? In this episode, we’re unmasking the persona of “the straight shooter,” to show how candor is often just complaining in disguise. But that’s not all! We have an absolute doozy of a question from the Nation that will reveal the unseen damage of ‘advice’.

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Why You Are the Way You Are

EP: 021 | 26 MIN | AIRED: 02.09.2021

When you tell others, “I’m just being myself,” are you really being your authentic self? Or is it perhaps another age old excuse that’s hiding in plain sight? Unfortunately, sayings like these have become so culturally camouflaged and commonplace that they’ve distorted ontological perspectives as time has gone on. It’s high time you cut this shit out – so on this episode, Gary’s confronting the “you” that you say you are.

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